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Arguments & Conflict Quiz  

Arguments


How conflict is managed is an important part of any relationship. When done correctly, conflict plays a vital role in allowing two people to reconcile their differing needs. Unfortunately when conflict is handled poorly, it can be a significant cause of distress in a relationship.

Take the 5-minute quiz to understand the role conflict is playing in your relationship.

  Strongly agree Agree Neutral Disagree Strongly disagree
1. We never disagree about anything.
2. I feel safe to reveal how I truly feel when we disagree.
3. My partner appears to feel safe revealing how they truly feel.
4. I find it hard to think about certain issues in my relationship without getting angry.
5. There are certain issues we can hardly discuss anymore because of how the discussion unfolds.
6. I generally feel better about the issue after the discussion ends.
7. I sometimes feel that we can never find common ground on an important issue.
8. I feel a certain disagreement is getting worse.
9. Certain issues we have an unspoken agreement not to discuss.
10. A past negative incident always seems to find its way into the present conversation.
11. There always seems to be an unspoken issue in our relationship.
12. Our arguments seem out-of-control.
13. I often feel attacked when we argue.
14. I often feel guilty about how I behave when we argue.
15. I often apologize just to make peace.
16. I feel my partner does not understand what is upsetting me.


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