Orange County Men's Support Group

 

Helping men have better relationships and richer lives.

Why group therapy?

• Group better simulates “real-world” relationships than individual therapy, which can lead to more growth.
• People who have had poor experiences of conflict or intimacy, can start to get a better experience of these in the safety of the group environment.
• Group is far lower cost that individual therapy.
• Group is a great addition to individual therapy. Often people “stuck” in their individual therapy make breakthroughs when they join a group.
• There is an important sense of belonging and fellowship that can be very healing for many.
• You may think you are the only person in the world struggling with certain problems. It can be refreshing to hear of others with similar struggles.
• Group experiences bring more of yourself to the therapeutic experience than you might have if it were just you and your therapist.
  

What is group therapy?

Group therapy is a type of therapy where a group for 4 to 10 people meet with a therapist each week. A group is wonderful way of discovering more about yourself. Group therapy is more like real-life than individual therapy. You get to be supportive, argue, disagree and have the full range of interactions that you do in your day-to-day life. It is a great place to learn better ways of being with others!

Group works best for people who are seeking long-term growth and who are not presently in crisis. Often participants are concurrently in individual counseling, or have had prior individual counseling experience.

If you are presently in a crisis situation, or need more immediate attention for a specific problem, you may consider individual counseling instead. Feel free to call me at (949) 288-3123 if you are not sure.

Who does well in group?

People who are seeking long-term growth and who can commit to consistently attending group therapy over a number of months.

When does the group meet?

The group meets every Monday at 7 PM for 90 minutes. Please note that you must schedule an initial one-on-one session with me prior to joining the group. You can call me at (949) 288-3123 or use the form below to schedule this meeting.

Can I observe a session?

To protect the privacy of the group members, I do not allow sessions to be observed. If you are not sure if group therapy is right for you, please give me a call. I will do my best to answer any questions you may have.

Can I make new friends in group?

Group is designed to give you the skills and insight to grow and improve your relationships outside of group. Group therapy does not work when certain members are friends outside of the group. This creates “cliques” within the group and restricts the authenticity of what is shared. For this reason, members are asked to not meet socially outside of the therapy group.

Can I do both individual and group therapy?

Yes. Group therapy is a wonderful addition to individual therapy (and vice-versa). Many people in individual therapy, discover rich new veins of growth once they start group therapy.

Can I see you as my individual therapist and group therapist?

Probably. This is something that we can discuss on a case-by-case basis. Feel free to call me if you are considering this.

Is this like a 12-step meeting (e.g. Alcoholics Anonymous or Codependents Anonymous)?

In some way yes, but mostly no. 12-step meetings do not allow “cross-talk”. People’s comments are restricted to their own experience. They are not allowed to comment on other members of the group. This format works well in the unsupervised setting of a 12 step meeting. Group therapy on the other hand allows feedback to be shared between members. This is more how we communicate in the real-world. Because of this there is a far great opportunity to learn more about yourself and grow.

What is the cost?

The fee is $50 per 90 minute session. Members must pay for all sessions each month - regardless of how many meeting they attend. i.e. if there are 4 meetings during the month, each member must pay $200 even if they are unable to attend certain meetings. This policy is designed to encourage consistent attendance. Consistent attendance is vital for the success of the group.

How long does group take?

The group is designed to be ongoing. Member can come and go as time goes by. However, people's consistent attendance is vital to the success of the group. For this reason, I ask people to commit to attending for a minimum of three months. Please note, that this is not enforced, just encourage - you may leave at any time you wish.

What about confidentiality?

As the group leader, I keep all information I hear confidential. There are a few important limitations as required by law that you can read in my privacy policy.

Each group member is asked to keep all information shared in the group confidential. Please understand that other group members are held by an honor code. Your confidentiality will not be assured as it is in individual therapy.

How do I find out more?

Before joining the group, I ask all new members to attend an initial 30-minute one-on-one session. This is to help you understand more about how group therapy works. There is a nominal $30 charge for this introductory session.

New Group Member Forms

For our introductory one-on-one meeting, please print and fill out these forms.

 

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