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5/21/2013: Why People Repeat Their Mistakes
There is an old joke, “How do you get to Carnegie Hall? Practice, practice, practice.”
Like the saying suggests, repeating things helps us master them. Humans like to gain mastery over difficult things. We “repeat to complete. We like the feeling of accomplishment when we can finally do something we have struggled with for a long time. When this works well, it can be the key to great achievements. But when this mechanism drives us down an unhealthy path, it can lead to a lifetime of unnecessary struggle.
5/7/2013 Living in Fear
When a relationship is going well, someone with trust issues is forced to live in a constant state of fear. This is paradoxical. One might expect people to be happy when they find someone they trust. Unfortunately, this is not the case. The past tells them that all people will eventually betray them. When things are going well in a relationship, people with trust issues live in a constant state of fear. The perceived betrayal is always around the bend; the executioners guillotine always lingers above their head.
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