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I have tried to make this site your source for the best information on relationships, sex and counseling in Orange County.
The Orange County Register featured me on their front page, April 9, 2010. Read their article and dozens of articles and quizzes I have written.
IRVINE COUNSELING OFFICE
Telephone: (949) 288-3123.
HIGHLIGHTED ARTICLE
5/21/2013: Why People Repeat Their Mistakes
There is an old joke, “How do you get to Carnegie Hall? Practice, practice, practice.”
Like the saying suggests, repeating things helps us master them. Humans like to gain mastery over difficult things. We “repeat to complete. We like the feeling of accomplishment when we can finally do something we have struggled with for a long time. When this works well, it can be the key to great achievements. But when this mechanism drives us down an unhealthy path, it can lead to a lifetime of unnecessary struggle.
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5/7/2013 Living in Fear
When a relationship is going well, someone with trust
issues is forced to live in a constant state of fear. This is paradoxical.
One might expect people to be happy when they find someone they trust.
Unfortunately, this is not the case. The past tells them that all people
will eventually betray them. When things are going well in a relationship,
people with trust issues live in a constant state of fear. The perceived
betrayal is always around the bend; the executioners guillotine always
lingers above their head.
Read more
NEWS
April 16, 2013
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April 20, 2012
I have created a limited number of openings for new clients. Please see my
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Dec 18, 2011
Have a very happy and peaceful holidays. My
office will be closed 12/24-1/2.
April 26, 2011
I currently have a limited number of appointments available for new clients.
office.
April 9, 2010
Pick up a copy of The Orange County Register.
They featured me on their
front page today.
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